This! I've written something about the subject if you're interested.

Anyway this is one of the few articles that makes sense on this publication. I'm quite surprised nobody accused you of white fragility and racism (everything is racist, so...) already. I tried before to politely tell people pretty much the same things, and I've been ignored, even insulted, or told to sit down, nod and shut up if I want to be a good ally. So what now? It's a vicious circle, I tell people that yes, I'm white, fragile, inherently racist and I don't argue with them anymore. But I don't like that because I still care, and I still don't want to cure a form of discrimination with more discrimination.

BTW here on Medium clickbait runs wild, this doesn't help.